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The Rules for Dealing with the Personality Disordered
« on: May 19, 2011, 02:38:21 PM »
Hi All:

I am asking for you help---when I first came here I saw a list that was entitled as above.  Rule 1 was Do Not Engage.

Now I can't remember the following rules!! (Although I've been 6 months' compliant with my NC!

I may have seen them elsewhere but I'm hoping one of you might know these and post them in response.

Thank you much!
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Re: The Rules for Dealing with the Personality Disordered
« Reply #1 on: May 19, 2011, 09:40:07 PM »
Check out these 2 areas:  http://www.outofthefog.net/CommonNonBehaviors/Toolbox.html

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and just our Glossary in general.
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Re: The Rules for Dealing with the Personality Disordered
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2011, 09:56:59 AM »
I tried searching for you to see if anything came up but there was nothing specifically to "rules for dealing with a personality disorder".

I did have a post awhile back about strategies for dealing with a bpd:   

http://outofthefog.net/forum/index.php?topic=4838.0
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Re: The Rules for Dealing with the Personality Disordered
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2011, 10:53:16 AM »
Thank you, Gary and oneflewover for responding to my search! I did go through the toolbox and the glossary, great stuff and within them they do have the 'rules' for dealing with the personality disordered  :yes:

What I was looking for was a list format I saw early in my experience, it was about 5 items, No.1 was Do Not Engage and no. 2 was basically don't give them access to your emotions/make yourself an easy target.

Maybe it will turn up as I retrace my steps learning about PDs and my Narents, ya never know.

Thanks
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