My stbx is seeing a T to manage his "anger" problems. According to him and her (!) he has "changed" after a few weeks of seeing her and now he sees her about his problem with "his drepressed--no wait, demon possessed--ADHD--no wait--NPD/BPD wife--no wait, maybe there's something else" wife. Also, in sessions with our last FOUR marriage counsellors, his agenda was only one thing: fix my wife--her behaviour is the problem. Every single time he refused to see our relationship as in need of help, just me, and he sabotaged every effort for reconciliation. ... My stbxBPH often presents himself first as an experienced senior medic and firefighter who has responded to many situations, and that uniquely qualifies him to speak about mental illness and any and every medical problem with authority--you ever question his authority in these areas, because he knows everything. ... I want him the hell out of my life! Shouldn't he be thrilled to get as far away from someone like me as possible since I have at least a half dozen "severe mental illnesses"??? Is this really about him trying to keep me playing his sick game?
"Reality check" question for you: did his T tell YOU that he has changed, or has he merely reported this exciting new 'fact' to you?
I cannot tell you how much time stbxH spent "diagnosing" me
why have you missed your last two sessions with your T, and can you get back in soon?