THANK GOD my uBPD mom doesn't have a facebook account...but cousins do, and boy do they love the drama.
They never comment or "like" anything from me or sibling. They just tell mom everything we post, with a side of "this and that" added for extra kick.
I don't post and when I do it is positive...they HATE this. Sibling posted a great picture of my g-ma (dad's mom that died a few years ago, who my mom loathes). We had looked for that picture because it was just a really good pic of her, well she posted it. I commented "yay, you found it"
This brought on world war 3. She didn't understand why neither of us thought of how she would feel that we had a picture of OUR GRANDMOTHER who never did anything to hurt us on our FB, or how that made her feel. We didn't post a picture of her mom. What kind of selfish children did she raise
1. She doesn't even have a facebook account!
2. It was not mean...I can't even imagine that making someone upset...were we supposed to dislike our gma?
3. My mom defends cousin and says she told me about it and she felt so bad that she had upset me by telling me. She had no idea it would cause a problem and would never start drama between us...HA! LOL! All they do is start stuff...
4. Cousin later puts passive aggressive status that says "I lost my mom at age 15 and I get really upset when people don't love their mom. I would give anything to have my mom back. For those of you out there who still have a mother, you need to act like it and treat her with respect because she won't always be around."
It was REALLY hard to ignore that post that was about me and sis, I know that is how PD's work though...neither me or sis said a word to anyone else about it, nor did we comment or respond in any way...but we sure did vent to each other about it...