You had to see the freak I'm dating dysregulate this weekend with his narcissism. I thought of this forum and wished there was a hidden camera somewhere so you all could crack up.
I suggested to the bf that we rearrange his large bedroom to better accomadate his office desk furniture that's arriving this week. So after much back and forth, he decided (my idea he took credit for) that we should move everything around. The furniture is heavy as hell. Large king sized cannon ball post bed. Large armoire. Gun cabinet falling apart. So the bed was moved, as we moved it without taking off the mattress and springs because that would make too much sense and was my suggestion, the leg on it fell off and fell down the floor heating duct. He couldn't reach it to pull it out. Then the armoire I told him to empty. It's very big to match the bed. I also asked if it came apart from the base. He did not want to empty it, and said it was all one peice. As we moved it, the top cracked off it's brackets which attached it to the base. All the clothes came flying out onto the floor. The wood splintered on the corner due to the top breaking off. Now can I just add that I'm the daughter of an Engineer. I think I know how to move things after living with my father for 49 years. There's a better way of moving furniture with less physical energy expended on my part. You had to see all his screaming, verbal abuse, "F" bombs, etc. I wanted to laugh but after listening to his crap for some time, I was getting tired of it and about ready to leave him in all the mess. I finally told him to shut the "F" up, get moving, or I was leaving, in a loud voice. I had better things to do on a Saturday. He looked at me like I was the crazy one and told me to calm down. Now that's a joke right there.
Then the broken down gun cabinet started falling apart as I touched it. I asked if we could get rid of it, but he said it was sentimental. So keep the piece of crap cabinet forever???? Whatever. it's his house. I then rearranged some of the stuffed, dead animals he has on his LR wall by putting them up in the BR in a better pattern. It ended up looking fantastic. He apologized. But never again. It was comical in the end but tiresome when I was in the midst of it. And in the end, he took credit for the idea of rearranging the BR to better fit the desk being delivered (that he did not measure for). And I'm sure the desk is big because everything he does has to be big, the best, and he notifys me of what the price was.
My back and legs are tired. I took Motrin Sunday and today. And can I add that he has 2 grown sons , 20 and 24, that were not around as usual when anything physical needs to be done. I made sure I brought that to his attention.