Have you tried massage or acupuncture? I have no idea if either will work, but at least neither requires meds.
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In conversations with other people I never had this problem.
I am currently trying to start a business and am stuck with a udnpd mother controlling the purse strings. Finally lost it on her the other day... THANK GOD I don't live with her
Instead of checking from time to to ask how my balance is she makes me ask.
This month I left her a note on the back of my ATM balance slip so MAYBE she'd bring a check when I saw her the next day..oh no I had to go get it. So I flipped out on her when I got there. I'm working 7 days a week.
I won't do it the next time - I'm simply going to ask her is she getting pleasure from humiliating me like that?
Your sister is an adult, she may be in a mess, but it is not your mess. If she can buy a camper she can stay on a campground. You owe her nothing. She can get mad and scream, just remember she is an adult who needs to fly out of the nest, not a child who needs to be picked up and coddled.
I have a horrible time saying no and if I try, I feel like a need a list of why, but in this case the whys would really hurt her.
My T calls it the secret police inside my head, monitoring all my thoughts. So harsh and relentless, telling me what's good and bad, right and wrong. Very hard to stop - it's always been there. And he's been pointing this out to me for a LONG time now. But I got a stronger sense of it lately, the way I can never protect myself, look after myself.