« Last post by Walking on Yesterday at 04:42:17 PM »
Thanks for the replies. The restraining order is for both of us. He can have contact but only on my terms. He chooses not to. Our child is nearly 7. The restraining order is due to him walking through my house with a shot gun and consistently threatening to hurt the people around me. The judge put it in place indefinitely. I'm not trying to keep him away from my child even though there are many many legal and safety reasons I should which I won't go into here. I was wondering why after all that I don't just leave it. If he wants contact with her he can go through the channels to do so. I feel like I am pushing her to see him when she consistently says she doesn't want to and was wondering if anyone else had similar experiences.