So, yesterday I finally gathered some courage to go back and get a glimpse on the dating website, hell, and maybe even talk to someone! It's the same site where me and my exBPD\NPDbf met. Ten minutes later, I got my "best matches", based on matching questions people answer. Guest who came up first? Yep, that's right, my ex. With a brand new shining profile and a gorgeous photo that I took of him (I'm a photographer). Out of the millions of people!!! Had to take a few Xanax pills, before I could open it without shaking.
So, what can I say, he a writer for a reason. Everything is so smoothly tailored to present him a perfect gentlemen, perfect intellectual. And a few comments here and there hinting that he's been hurt in relationships, to tug on women heartstrings.
Lying that he has a job, (playes videogames all day), culturally active (never goes out of the house, unless it's to a bar), loves people (when they provide supply, otherwise talking all the time how he hates them), good at making his SO feeling loved and appreciated (diabolical laughter) and giving presents (got one during the whole time, a book, which he took "to read" and never gave back)
So much hypocrisy! - in the end of our relationship, when he didn't care what I think about him anymore, he used to go into tirades about how "fat" women don't have the right to exist, also people of color, Muslims, Jews, women with curly hair, women with tatoos, women with hair on their legs, etc
Now suddenly "women can have any kind of body they want to have, and I respect that" "there should be equality for every person, no matter what race or color he is" and so on ..
God I'm so sick
I contacted the administration, so they would at least take down that photo taken by me, because it's a copyright infringement to upload it without my consent. No response.
I keep thinking about how many women would be hooked up on this perfectly crafted profile, and it makes me so angry, so sick and angry.
In hope to raise awarness about the dangerous people on these websites, and their behavior, I wrote a thread on Reddit today.
If you're there, please take a moment to upvote it, so it could get more views. http://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/2k9p1k/how_i_met_a_psychopath_through_okcupid/
Thank you so much if you've read my rant till the end